Friday, July 15, 2005

Closing Thoughts

Considering how this is going to be my last full day at Yeshiva, I feel like writing some closing thoughts.

I've heard a lot of definitions of what "human nature" is here at Yeshiva. Whenever these words visit my ears it just so happens that alarm bells go off and I am forced to be critical of what the lecturer is trying to get across. One statement concerning human nature by one of the lecturers here was that humans are naturally violent. What does that mean? Does it mean that violence is an instinct? Does it mean that if you take away all the trappings of society and all inherent mores, norms, social codes, religion and laws that people will just go around hurting each other because they can not help themselves? I am sorry to this particular lecturer (who will not be named as I do not think it is fair to publically denounce him just because I disagree with him) but being in the Psychology program in University has taught me to think empirically. Something natural to a human being is a drive for example. If you want to empiricize a drive then do what B.F. Skinner did and talk about hours since the drive has been satiated. Hunger was Skinner's example. You feed the animal, and then deprive it for a certain amount of time and then experiment on it using food that it likes after a certain amount of deprivation. How are you going to empiricize the "Violence Drive"? Do you stick a Human in a box and deprive him/her of violence for a certain period of time and then see how much they'll do for the opportunity to do violence upon someone? What about gender differences in violence? Can we show that both Men and Women are equally violent? What about cultural differences in violence? Can we show that all cultures commit an equivalent level of violence? What about differences between people grouped by cognitive ability? Do intelligent people commit more or less violence than less intelligent people?

I will tell you my belief. I read in a Personality Psychology text book that people have a need to feel that they have mastery over their environment. This makes more sense than saying people need to be violent. Everyones' environments are different. Considering this, different things are going to be needed to master different environments. Different avenues are going to be made available to people to achieve this goal. Some people are going to grow up in tough, heartless environments, while some people are going to grow up in cold manipulative environments. Some people will grow up in warm, caring environments, while some people will grow up in emotionally bi-polar environments.

Given this, I think that some people are going to learn along the way (possibly with the help of lowered biological receptivity to emotion) that to master your environment you have to manipulate people to do what you want. In this process a person might realize that violence is either an option, or necessary.

The person who I am here describing is not meant to represent everyone. I might be foolishly optimistic but I do not believe that everyone will be violent (or choose violence) given the chance.

It can be a real toss up here. I have heard a lot of wisdom, and a lot of silliness. I have appreciated and respected the lecturers who try to stick to their area of expertise and not make claims that they are not ready to empirically validate.

That will be all for now. Today is my last Shabbat here in Ohr Samayach in Monsey, New York. It's been a very stimulating experience but it is definitely time to go back to work and pay the bills :)

2 Comments:

At 2:16 PM, July 15, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nice entry! Point well taken!

Just like human nature has been a never-ending debate amongst intellectuals and people at large, anger has also become quite the controversial topic, though not quite as popular till more recently.

It's true what you say, I, as a psychology student, also concur with the empirical studies...yet, I also think there's a very thin like between empiricism and rationalism here...let me elaborate...

Many people with real anger problems think that something outside of them has trigured this anger and controls what they think and feel, as such they see themselves as just reacting to their environment, hence they are merely "victims"! So, in essence, it could almost be likened to behaviorism, since a stimulus triggers a response in people and they don't really have a choice over how they react! Yet, I believe people could learn to control how they express their emotions and they could learn to express anger (a very dangerous emotion) in a constructive way.

The bottom line here is that people have to learn to regulate their anger and recognize the potential in healing the pain at its core. Not only will this help us regain our equilibrium, but it will make us stronger and wiser in the end.

Lastly, I believe compassion and empathy are great factors in learning to control anger. When we realize what we do and say in an angry fit could harm another, we will learn to stop doing so because we do not want to intentionally hurt someone this way, after all, we are at the core, I believe, compassionate human beings, we just have to connect with our compassionate and empathetical side.

So, it seems, the key is to learn to control our anger... the age-old saying that our foremothers have passed on to us still stands strong in my mind (as my parents remind me of this all the time): Think before you act (and this particularly applies when one is an angry fit)! :)

 
At 8:57 PM, July 16, 2005, Anonymous Anonymous said...

very interesting matthew!!

lindsay
ps, see you monday!

 

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